Fear Of Getting Hurt - This may surprise you but some people blow hot and cold because they fear getting hurt.In a bizarre way, he/she believes that by behaving in this manner, they are controlling the situation, hence their emotions, thereby eliminating the risk of getting their heart broken.I am a woman though, and don't claim to speak for men or all people.
Be specific and ask for what you want: · Do you want flowers? Let him know what kind of attention and commitment you’re looking for. I’m a funny guy, fairly wise, very goal oriented, and I’m very social. Their relationship moved to that level and eventually marriage.Quite honestly, it’s one of the most healthy and communicative marriages I know.One minute they're all over you (metaphorically speaking of course! If you really like the person in question, chances are (particularly if you're a woman) you'll ruminate and 'over analyse' everything you've said and done but the truth is that it has nothing to do with you. The sooner you recognise and accept this, the quicker you empower yourself in the situation and here's why: He/She Does Not Know What They Want - Uncertain about whether they want to be in a relationship, they display a yoyo type of behaviour, whilst trying to figure it out, albeit unfairly at the cost of someone else's time and emotions.Why would anyone want to stick around and endure this type of selfish behaviour?